(Fictional) Assoc. Prof. Liana Hassan, Department of Social and Behavioral Sciences, Sunway University
Lifestyle Pairing: Enabled by the mall’s proximity. Couples perform “conspicuous dating” via Instagram-worthy food spots (e.g., Sushi King, Din Tai Fung). A female participant noted: “If he insisted on only food court at the basement, I knew he wasn’t serious. The relationship was measured in Ringgit spent per date.” The Lagoon’s wave pool is cited as a popular location for first physical intimacy, leveraging the anonymity of changing rooms. (Fictional) Assoc
This paper explores the formation, maintenance, and dissolution of romantic relationships among diploma and foundation students at Sunway College, Malaysia. Situated within the unique ecosystem of the Sunway City campus—a space that bridges a major shopping mall, a theme park, and a lake—students navigate a distinct blend of hyper-modern consumerism and traditional Asian values. Using qualitative interviews with 30 former and current students, we identify three primary romantic “scripts”: the Mentality-Driven Bond (academic collaboration), the Lifestyle Pairing (consumer-based leisure), and the Stratum-Crossing Romance (local-international student dynamics). Findings suggest that the physical geography of the campus (e.g., “The Bridge” connecting college to the mall) acts as a non-human actor in shaping relationship timelines. The paper concludes that Sunway relationships are often compressed, high-intensity experiences that serve as rehearsals for adult commitments in Malaysia’s neoliberal economy. The physical integration of the mall
Romantic storylines at Sunway College are not mere subplots to academic life; they are central to how students negotiate identity, class, and future aspirations. The physical integration of the mall, theme park, and university erodes the boundary between study and leisure, turning dating into a performative, consumption-driven act. However, the Mentality-Driven Bond offers a counter-narrative, suggesting that shared academic ambition remains a potent, if fragile, foundation for love. Future research should examine how these dynamics change when students articulate to Sunway University’s degree programs. turning dating into a performative
Furthermore, parental oversight remains powerful. Many students rely on allowances from parents who view Sunway as a “safe” environment. One participant described her mother secretly tracking her car’s Touch ‘n Go card history to see if she visited her boyfriend’s condo. Romance, therefore, becomes a covert operation involving spare phones and coded messages hidden in Google Docs shared for group projects.