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And if you’re reading this and you’re not in a similar situation, I want you to know that being a side chick is not the end of the world. It’s not something to be ashamed of. It’s simply a part of life, a part that can be messy and complicated, but also liberating and empowering.

If you’re reading this and you’re in a similar situation, I want you to know that you’re not alone. I want you to know that you’re strong and capable and deserving of love. -Vixen- Gina Valentina - Confessions Of A Side ...

I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve been told to “stay in my place” or to “know my role.” But I’ve never been one to back down. I’ve always been a bit of a rebel, and being a side chick has only fueled that fire. But with the thrill comes the guilt and the shame. I’ve spent countless nights lying awake, wondering what I was doing wrong. Why was I settling for someone’s scraps? Why was I allowing myself to be treated like a secret? And if you’re reading this and you’re not